merelakan sesuatu.
it refers to many complicated things that you can't explain with common thoughts.
apalagi pada saat kita lagi sukaaaaaa banget.
weits...
suka banget sama apaan neeeh????
pada saat kita terlalu mendamba akan sesuatu, dan kita mendapatkan nya dengan mudah
mungkin ga bakalan terlalu sakit ya saat sesuatu itu ilang...atau lepas dari tangan kita.
tapi beda critanya kalo kita mendapatkannya dengan suatu usaha, suatu penantian,
suatu pengharapan... beuh dah males deh ngetik nya juga gue nih!!!
yah pokonya gitu deh...lu pada ngarti kan maksudnya???
dalam sebulan ini, ada hal-hal yang harus gue "lepas" dengan rela hati.
entah secara fisik atau psikis... tapi gue harus bisa. It's a must.
kalo ga gitu, gue ga akan bisa langkahin kaki gue lebih lebar...
kalo ga relain, hati gue yang bakal makin tersakiti...orang lain bakal tersakiti juga
iyalah gimana ga sakit, lha jelas keukeuh/ngeyel/ngotot sama maunya sendiri,
tanpa mempertimbangkan kondisi di sekeliling !!!!
egois itu namanya.
kadang ada moment dimana kita harus bener2 nahan diri ya...
nahan perasaan...
mau sakitnya seperti apapun... kalo emang bukan waktunya untuk kita,
kita ga bisa lho sok sok meng-claim yang emang bukan hak kita...
naaah.. pas kan kalo gue bilang.. learn to let go..
It Takes Love by STYX
sometimes it's hard to smile
keep looking back
searching for somebody
who once was in your life
baby let him go now
there'll be something better ahead
it takes love to make love
you can't hide behind your broken heart
it takes love to make love
let the light of another lover shine on you
we all have tears to cry
but there comes a day
to leave your tears behind you
and give your heart
someplace to start
and if you find your way there
there'll be someone waiting for you
it takes love to make love
you can't hide behind your broken heart
it takes love to make love
let the light of another lover shine on you
like a river
that flows
to the sea
don't wait
like a river
flowing down
whoa...hey...ooh...ah...ooh
it takes love to make love
you can't hide behind your broken heart
it takes love to make love
let the light of another lover shine on you
it takes love to make love
never mind the broken heart baby
it takes love to make love
let the light of another lover shine on you
sedih sebenernya...
bukan hal mudah lho "to let go" untuk sebagian orang...
tapi back to the thing, bukan saatnya meng-claim yang bukan untuk kita.
mending sakit hati sekarang,
dari pada menjalani nya denga keesakitan yang terus menerus
mending hentikan sekarang,
daripada terikat oleh kepedihan tanpa ujung...
halah..melow.
hi ndul :)
ReplyDeleteWah kata-kata yang indah yg bisa nasehatin diri kita agar semakin kuat walaupun pedih di hati melepaskan orang yang pernah singgah dihati kita. Kita memang harus belajar utk bisa melepaskan perasaan itu semua krn memang sudah bukan hak kita tanpa harus ada rasa sakit hati diantara kita. Namun harus tetap dijaga kasih sebagai teman bukan sebagai kekasih.
ReplyDeletesalam,
Klo lg struggling to let something/someone go, cuma satu yg gw yakinin, May..
ReplyDeleteSegala sesuatu itu bakal indah pada waktunya. Klo memang kita memang tidak meant to be together with someone, ya mungkin itu bukan yang "terindah/terbaik" buat kita..
Tapi prakteknya siy cencunya ga segampang ngucapin kali ye.. Takes time & tears sometimes..
Halaah...
Cheers,
SZ
pas may...
ReplyDeletewhen u said..learn to let go...
coz everytime we had to let go our dearest person, we thought we are strong enough to let go since we learned from previous experience..but apparently each person has different way of letting go....
nyuplik dari lagunya Corinne Bailey Rae..
"Till It Happens To You"
I know what I said
Was heat of the moment
But theres a little truth in between the words we've spoken
Its a little late now to fix the heart thats broken
Please don't ask me where I'm going
Cause I don't know
No I don't know anymore
It used to feel like heaven
Used to feel like may
I used to hear those violins playing heart strings like a symphony
Now they've gone away
Nobody wants to face the truth
But you wont believe what love can do
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you
Went to the old flat
Guess I was trying to turn the clock back
How come that nothing feels the same now when I'm with you
We used to stay up all night in the kitchen
When our love was new
Oooh love I'm a fool to believe in you
Cause I don't know
No I don't know
Anymore
It used to feel like heaven
It used to feel like may
I used to hear those violins playing heart strings like a symphony
Now they've gone away
Nobody wants to know the truth
Until their hearts broken
Don't you dare tell them
What you think to do
Till they get over
You can only learn these things
From experience
When you get older
I just wish that someone would have told me
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you
Till it happens to you